Kenneth R. Pap passed away on August 22, 2025, in Hilton Head Island, South Carolina. Ken was born on November 16th, 1936, in Sheldon, Iowa to Susie (Van Engen) and Albert Pap. He graduated from Sheldon High School in 1955 and Grinnell College in 1959 where he played football. A week later, he married Martha Jane (McCarty). They were married until her death in 2005.
Growing up on his family farm instilled a strong work ethic, a quality he carried through his entire life. Ken’s career spanned various fields including teaching and coaching in several Iowa high schools, construction sales, and running a successful business until his retirement.
Ken was well known for his sense of humor. He always had a joke ready or an entertaining story to share. He could often be found on the golf course and played regularly well into his 80’s. He was passionate about Iowa State Cyclones football and basketball as well as the Minnesota Vikings and Boston Red Sox. Ken was also known to make a perfect gin and tonic and was always ready for happy hour as “It’s 5:00 somewhere”.
Ken was very fortunate to spend the latter part of his life with Chelon Stanzel. The two shared a love of travel and hosting family holidays. Ken loved and enjoyed the Stanzel children and grandchildren as much as his own.
Ken is survived by his partner, Chelon Stanzel, his daughters Lynn Krasiewich (David) and Molly Steiner, and his grandchildren, Alea Krasiewich, Will, Jonathan and Madeline Steiner. He is also survived by his sister, Shirley Arends. He is preceded in death by his parents, his wife, Martha Jane, brothers Del and John, and sisters Glenda (Lode), Pearl (DeJong) and Jeanette (Brinkman).
A Celebration of Life will be held on September 12th from 4:00-7:00 at Indigo Hall in Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, and on October 11th from 2:00 – 5:00 at the Sac Country Club in Sac City, Iowa.
In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to a local charity of your choice, reflecting Ken’s generous spirit and commitment to helping others.
He will be deeply missed, and his memory will remain a lasting influence on those fortunate enough to have known him.
