Our Services
In order to provide a family with
a ceremony marking the conclusion of a life lived with dignity and meaning,
we firmly believe in facilitating a ceremony that means the most to
you. Because serving your family is the most important aspect of our
services, one call to Farber & Otteman is all you have to make.
From that point on, we'll insure that all the details are addressed
in a timely and professional manner.
The
Farber & Otteman Family Resource Center offers an assortment of
products to help families and guests attending the service create a
more meaningful tribute to their loved one. The addition of the Family
Resource Center products are essential in creating convenience, consumer
comfort, and value in a full range of funeral service products.
These tasteful display modules are
an integral part of the Farber & Otteman Family Resource Center,
and are carefully planned to help families view and understand the full
range of products available.
The
Farber & Otteman Family Resource Center displays a carefully crafted
assortment of closed quarter-sections of caskets, arranged so families
can easily see a progression of value. The Center also focuses on creating
a warm comforting environment that helps families make a more informed
purchasing decision.
At Farber & Otteman, we believe
the funeral ceremony is about how your loved one lived their life and
your place in that life. We strongly encourage families to bring in
photos, mementos and remembrances that will be displayed in the casket
or in their own special section. Personalizing the casket, exterior
and interior, by color selection, type of fabric, individualized corner
pieces or by engraving will help tell the story of your loved one, for
all to read. Flowers, the music chosen, prayer cards or memorial folders
all contribute to this final chapter. With so many personal and individual
choices to be made, it is important that you receive, from one of our
staff members, the options that are available to you.
Traditional Service
Many families prefer to choose a traditional
worship-oriented funeral ceremony. A traditional ceremony typically
includes:
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Viewing at the place of
worship or funeral home, either prior to the ceremony or the evening
before
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The funeral ceremony itself,
conducted at the funeral home or place of worship
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Procession to the cemetery
for a final committal service
Being traditional does not
mean being without choice. Each funeral at Farber & Otteman is tailored
to your preferences. Some of the areas that can reflect your personal
choice are:
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The flowers for the ceremony
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Music - can be contemporary,
jazz, traditional hymns, etc
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Merchandise - the casket
selection, clothing (either purchased from us or brought in by family
members)
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Prayer cards or memorial
folders
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A collection of photographs,
mementos or remembrances to be placed in the casket or displayed in
their own special section
Memorial Service
A Memorial Service is when the deceased is not present. It may take place
at the funeral home, the family's home, a church, or even outdoors. This
is a time to remember your loved one through fellowship with friends and
family. The memorial service can also be an addition to a traditional
funeral service. For example, having a traditional funeral service here
and then a memorial service back in the deceased’s home town. Or,
a memorial service can be done after a burial or cremation if this meets
the need of the family.
Committal Service
The Committal Service is a brief service at the gravesite after a traditional
funeral service but prior to the burial. This is where family and friends
say their final good-byes at the final resting place by placing flowers
or sometimes sand on the casket. If the committal service is the only
service then it becomes what we call a Graveside Service and is accompanied
by a visitation the night before. The graveside service is a more lengthy
service consisting of scripture reading, eulogy, poetry, and music.
Cremation
Just
because a family has chosen cremation does not mean that a funeral ceremony
to honor the person who has died can not take place. There are several
options such as a visitation or gathering of family and friends at the
funeral home or another location. A funeral or memorial service can take
place either before or after cremation. This service can, again, take
place either at the funeral home, place of worship or any other location
you may choose.
Every service is tailored to
the family at Farber & Otteman and we want to make sure you are aware
of all the options and choices that are available to you. The personalization
of your ceremony can be accomplished by:
- Your flower selection
- The music chosen
- Type, color and size of urn
- Prayer cards or memorial folders
- Family collection of photos,
remembrances and mementos
Most families choosing cremation
decide on burial of the cremated remains. Whether it is private graveside
service, or for friends and family, it is an important final moment.
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